First, an exciting announcement. The Astoria garden tour is back! Read more about it here.
We continued our peninsula garden tour day, with Ann and Evan, at Dave and Melissa’s Sea Star Garden on the outskirts of Oysterville. On several acres, much of which is ungardenable wetland, our friends have spent the past two years using their rare days off from their gardening business to create their own paradise. Because they used to own a nursery called Glauca Moon, they arrived here with a large palette of plants in pots.
Sea Star Garden
On the left as you enter the driveway is a large raised garden where once a decrepit old house stood (a house that was unsafe to even enter). This garden came about when a new septic system had to be installed last year.
On top, a carpet of sedums will solve the problem of not being able to plant anything deep rooted on the septic system.

Dave, me, Melissa, Ann, Sean (Allan thinks this looks like a landing party from Star Trek.)
By the back deck of the house is a water feature with waterfall, made by a friend of the previous owner.
The property had been owned by a gardener before and abounds in interesting trees and shrubs.
As Dave and Mel clear the underbrush, they are finding all sorts of hardscapes like two small ponds and a big stone circle with a stone bench.
Next, we went to the garden of a North Beach Garden Gang friend, just south of Oysterville.
Todd’s Family Garden
As we drove up, Todd was weeding.
Around the family home, Todd has planted his collection from his years as the display garden curator at Plant Delights nursery in North Carolina.

Spigelia marilandica ‘Little Redhead’
The kitchen garden, which one of Todd’s family describes as “a real garden, none of this foo foo stuff” lay far below. Because my heel was hurting, I sat this part of the trip out. (Todd kindly offered to go get a truck but I did not want everyone to have to wait.) Allan’s photos of that part of the excursion:
Meanwhile….
While I waited up top, I looked at my present from Lorna. She had given me a book as we parted ways at The Oysterville Garden.
I also pondered curmudgeonly thoughts about garden tour programs that I feel compelled to share. If curmudgeonliness annoys rather than amuses you, please avoid.
One of the gardens on today’s informal tour, Martie and Steve’s, had been on the local tour the day before. The tour program suggested its symmetry was “reminiscent of centuries old British estates” and “will put you in mind of Downton Abbey”. Perhaps because it had a cricket lawn? Perhaps because of the green lawns in general? It reminded me of my thoughts about garden tour descriptions, something that is always on my mind during garden tour season.
Martie and Steve’s garden completely stood on its own and did not need to be compared to any other place. The garden’s lines seemed clean and modern to me and certainly did not remind me of Downton Abbey. Other than my usual desire to be in the UK, I would rather visit their garden than the site of Downton Abbey, anyway.
I was reminded of the previous year’s comparison of a small garden to an Italian courtyard, leading to confusion on the part of tour guests (much of which I heard about later…even unto it being mentioned this year, and at the time, a friend texted me from that garden asking for enlightenment about the description). I think that serious garden tour guests take every word of a description into consideration. Raising expectations is not wise. That particular garden (the non-Italian-courtyard) also stood well on its own because its big pots and hand made pavers were all portable; I would have described it as being a small garden that showed perfect solutions for folks who are renters rather than property owners. There’s no need to get fanciful and make tour guests expect something grander than what is there. Instead of describing a garden as “extensive” when it isn’t, describe it honestly as small but plant-i-ful. (To be fair, this year the word “extensive” was used to describe a tiny local garden in a newspaper article, not in the program itself.) I think it is especially important not to aggrandize a garden.
The Master Gardeners’ north county tour, which I have now attended for two years, is good at avoiding hyperbole (with only one exception out of 12 garden descriptions in two years…a solid record of accurate descriptions).
The Hardy Plant Society Study Weekend programs tend to be accurate and non-aggrandizing (although I do remember, just once, looking for a cactus garden that turned out to be a couple of specimens in a pot).
I also do not like being told to walk here, stroll there, sit there, admire this, ask the gardener that. Just describe the garden in a factual sense. Here is an imaginary example: If I am told that “a salvaged window defines the edge of the garden by the river”, I will find it and admire it on my own without being told “Be sure to admire the salvaged window,” or “Ask the gardener where she got that window.” (Clearly, I do have issues with being told what to do—thus 41 years of self employment.)
I don’t expect all readers to agree. Now, let’s go on to one of my favourite peninsula gardens, the bayside garden of Steve and John.
Landing party, yes, except Evan shouldn’t be stepping off the transporter pad first–unless he’s one of the red shirt guys. So Acer “Esk” does fine in full ‘Ninsula Sun? Would love to have “Esk” at the cottage.
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That would be lovely.
I, too, was thinking about red shirts.
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I love the word “curmudgeon” and have been known to be one from time to time. Truth is important. One actually might skip touring a particular garden if they don’t like the description.–I know that I have. Back to the two gardens at hand, I liked them both, but I hope at some point you will go back and tour David and Melissa garden again. I want to see how the sedums fill in and what, if anything, they do with the mysterious circle. Their garden really intrigues me.
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I will be visiting there regularly. Progress is amazing considering they work 6 days a week and even work a lot in the winter.
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“Allan thinks this looks like a landing party from Star Trek.” How right he is.
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I would call David and Melissa stalwart gardeners. You have encountered them gardening in weather situations that I am sure not many others would garden during. I am delighted by all that they are uncovering. I hope that the former owner knows that his/her house has gone to stellar (and stalwart) gardeners, not to mention extraterrestrial (maybe).
Todd’s garden looks like an all-day excursion to capture it in one’s mind. His special plants would be wonderful to see individually. The “real” garden seems more than one gardener could manage. It is filled with everything.
I enjoyed this gardens tour.
You are not romantic about gardens, even when moved to tears, but apparently those who come up with grandiose descriptions, comparing the garden to English mansions, have Romantic tendencies. Romance can be a great escape for many, so why not toss in a few furbelows and geegaws to the description. It wouldn’t turn me off, but I would definitely visit such sites later in my garden tour, if that were possible.
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Fortunately, the “real garden” at Todd’s family home is worked on by several family members, including dad and one or more siblings. It is most impressive.
Interesting words about romance. As always, thank you for your insight!
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That trunk on the Acer griseum is pretty spectacular. Love all the textures and plant combinations in Todd’s shade garden.
Regarding garden tour descriptions, I tend to find them wholly unreliable. I always take them with a grain of salt and remind myself they are usually written by volunteers whose primary writing experience is probably fundraising for charity.
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