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Saturday, 9 June 2018

Astoria, Oregon

As soon as I saw the crowd gathered by the grandstand next to Buoy Beer, on the Astoria Riverwalk, I was so glad I had not succumbed to my usual desire to stay home in my garden.

There are probably not many Pride events with a tsunami evacuation sign as back drop.

MC Dida DeAngelis

I saw Ilwacoans Todd and Annie, and reflected on Seattle pride marches of the past when teachers wore bags over their heads with signs “Teachers with Pride Still Have to Hide.”  Todd is a local school principal and Annie is a teacher.

Astoria’s parade is open to all who want to show support and solidarity with the local LGBTQ community.

Here comes the parade!

The face on the banner is that of Ruth Bader Ginsburg, “The Notorious RBG”, Supreme Court champion of equality.

Pacific Unitarian Universalist Fellowship

And then the sound of drumming and tootling…

I got completely choked up, as I did last year, about OUR town’s high school marching band being in the parade.  What a glorious change from when I was in high school in the early 70s.

Allan’s photo

 

Allan’s photo

left: Ilwaco city councilwoman and school booster Missy “Lucy Dagger” of the Beards Hollow Pirates

Maddy of Pink Poppy Bakery and North Coast Food web, with her daughter Quincy.

You may remember Maddy is last year’s parade, also with Quincy.

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Our next door neighbour, Jared of Starvation Alley Farm (and Ilwaco city councilman)

our new neighbour, Willa (Allan’s photo)

Astoria roller derby grrls

Allan’s photo

 

Allan’s photo

 

The cast of the Astor Street Opry’s annual play, Shanghaied in Astoria (Allan’s photo)

Allan’s photo

Allan’s photo

Poison Waters and Friends, the drag revue which would provide entertainment at the Block Party, rode in the Astoria Trolley.

I followed along rather far behind for many blocks of the Riverwalk….

before the long walk (which would not have felt long a few years ago)

The Columbia River

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Rainbows marked the way to the Astoria Pride Block Party.

When I arrived, I got a good seat to enjoy the funny, moving, expertly professional entertainment.  It had not rained on the parade, nor did it rain on the block party.  The Poison Waters and Friends revue was so good that I forgot about my gardening plans and we stayed for the afternoon.

food vendors (Allan’s photo)

Our gardening friends Mark and Brian were there.

ambassadors from local small towns

The drag queens lip synched so convincingly that I’d forget they weren’t singing.

 

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She sang a soulful song like a church lady.

Allan’s photo

Allan’s photo

Daylight, from Astoria (Allan’s photo)

Allan’s photo

Allan’s photo

local drag queen Ginger Vitus (Allan’s photo)

Allan’s photo

Ginger Vitus, from Astoria,  was hilarious and adorable. (Allan’s photo)

Allan’s photo

Allan’s photo

The Astoria Q Center Choir

The block party would go on for hours with assorted bands, but we left because there was no topping Poison Waters and her friends (and I did have gardening to do).

Just to complete our glorious outing, we saw a killdeer along the trolley tracks on our way back to our parking spot.

Allan’s photo

 

 

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Sunday, 11 June 2017 in Astoria, Oregon

The second annual Pride parade, led by the Astoria trolley, started under the bridge and proceeded along the River Walk to a field a few blocks east of the Maritime Museum. We joined it just west of downtown. 

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Grand Marshall Darcelle, all the way from Portland!


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Darcelle her ownself


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Astoria’s mayor, Arline LaMear (center)

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Allan photographing

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Ilwaco friends Annie and Todd

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Stickers being handed out

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Shanghaied Roller Dolls

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I had heard the marching band coming and it sounded excellent.  And then I saw it our town’s high school marching band and almost wept from joy. How wonderfully times have changed since I first moved to the Long Beach Peninsula (across the river from Astoria)  25 years ago!

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I wish I’d worn my North Beach Garden Gang hoodie or that I had a Tangly Cottage Gardening hoodie!

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The Finnish Lesbians’ fishing nets

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MCs Poison Waters and Dida Deangeles


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Ilwaco High School Marching Band performs for the MCs

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Buoy Beer was a sponsor and the center point of the parade with the MC stand.

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Maddy from Pink Poppy Bakery, left, dressed as a strawberry (she’s pregnant!) and, left, our neighbours Jared and Jessika of Starvation Alley Cranberry Farm.


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Pink Poppy Maddy

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walking by Columbia Pacific Maritime Museum

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mural by Wet Dog Café

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approaching the rally grounds at 21st Street:

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One of our friends took a photo with Allan included.

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Darcelle and company leaving the trolley

at the rally:

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Grand Marshall Darcelle is 87!

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Poison Waters

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longtime partners Darcelle and Roxy


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Astoria’s mayor, Arline LaMear

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The pastor of a local church closed with a most beautiful song, How Could Anyone by Libby Roderick,  and the audience sang along.  You can read more about the song here.

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Reverend Kit Ketchum from the Pacific Unitarian Universalist Church, Astoria.

How could anyone ever tell you
You were anything less than beautiful
How could anyone ever tell you
You were less than whole
How could anyone fail to notice
That your loving is a miracle
How deeply you’re connected to my Soul…

Before the song, she recited her Pride Litany, with which I’ll close this photo essay:

PRIDE LITANY
Rev. Kit Ketcham
For Astoria (OR) Pride 2017
(okay to use with attribution)

With gratitude for the freedom to be our true authentic selves,
may we always live the Spirit of Pride
With the courage that comes from experiencing and challenging fear,
may we always live the Spirit of Pride
With the knowledge that a sense of community banishes isolation and loneliness,
may we always live the Spirit of Pride
With the joy that comes from connection with one another,
may we always live the Spirit of Pride
With the achievement of equality received after long struggles and yet looking ahead to the justice still withheld,
may we always live the Spirit of Pride
With the dignity gained from finding deep self-respect,
may we always live the Spirit of Pride
With the safety found in creating an accepting community,
may we always live the Spirit of Pride
With appreciation for leaders and friends who understand and who stand up against injustice,
may we always live the Spirit of Pride
With sorrow for those who could not be here with us today and in honor of those who died of AIDs or who gave their lives for our cause,
may we always live the Spirit of Pride
With strength and encouragement for our young people growing up and grief for those whose pain was unbearable and who left us too soon,
may we always live the Spirit of Pride
With the rainbow flag flying high, a sense of beloved community created, and the joy that comes from making new connections,
may we always live the Spirit of Pride.

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Sunday, 12 June 2016

Last night at 1 AM I checked the news as is my habit before bedtime, to learn that something horrific was unfolding at the Pulse dance club in Orlando, Florida.  This morning, I woke to news of 49 of my extended tribe killed and many injured.  All I could do in the afternoon was read the news and share the grieving of friends online and edit and post the photos of yesterday’s beautiful and joyous pride parade.  Back in my 20s and 30s, I frequented gay dance clubs every week. Every single time, my friends and I were well aware that to do so put us in danger from homophobic fanatics…as did just walking down the street together looking visibly gay.  We did not let that fear keep us home, and many of my best memories of those years came from the joy of dancing in community.

I read on Facebook about a vigil that would take place in Astoria in the early evening and Allan and I decided to go, even though, as always, I was sorely tempted to just stay in my garden.  (Allan’s photos from today are marked with an asterisk *.)

In the late afternoon, Devery came by to pick some strawberries and we talked for awhile about sadness and hope for the world.

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In our household, only the cats were having their usual cheerful day.

*In our household, only the cats were having their usual cheerful day.

In the evening, Allan and I went to The Garden of Surging Waves in Astoria for the vigil of memory.

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driving east along the Columbia River toward the bridge. You can see Astoria across the water.

driving east along the Columbia River toward the bridge. You can see Astoria across the water.

wildflowers on the Washington side of the bridge.

wildflowers on the Washington side of the bridge.

on our walk toward the vigil

on our walk toward the vigil

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The Garden of Surging Waves

The Garden of Surging Waves

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*a garden full of people

*a garden full of people

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The Astoria Q Choir led the singing of Over the Rainbow.

The Astoria Q Center Choir led the singing of Over the Rainbow.

Tears came because I am 61 years old and have seen the results of hatred for far too long, and because I am so moved by the local community joining together like this.

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*a circle of holding hands as the Astoria community sent love to Orlando.

*a circle of joined hands as the Astoria community sent love to Orlando.

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A young man spoke of how he had moved to Astoria from Orlando just four months ago, and this morning he had been looking for his friends on Facebook to see if any had died.

A woman spoke of how she and her wife and daughter had lived in Florida and had moved back to the Pacific Northwest because here, her daughter would grow up in a climate of acceptance; here in Cascadia, they are treated as a family.

A man spoke of how he and his partner had been on cruises with the delightful Edward Sotomayer, one of the first to be listed among the dead.

The organizers of the Pride weekend then led a walk all through downtown to tie black ribbons onto the banners that had been hung with happy anticipation a few days before.

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A different person tied the ribbon at each pole.

A different person tied the ribbon at each pole.

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* in the light

*waving to a passing car who had called out in support

*waving to a passing car who had called out in support

*a thumbs up to caring passerby

*a thumbs up to caring passerby

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a shop window decorated for Pride weekend

a shop window decorated for Pride weekend

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* Love will prevail.

* Love will prevail.

*The Shanghaied Roller Dolls were represented.

*The Shanghaied Roller Dolls were represented.

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*on the way to Marine Drive, one block north

*on the way to Marine Drive, one block north

On Marine Drive

On Marine Drive

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the final ribbon

the final ribbon

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Having eaten nothing all day but cereal and a banana in the morning, I appreciated repairing to Himani Indian Cuisine for some comfort food.

Himani Indian Cuisine

Himani Indian Cuisine

dinner at Himani

dinner at Himani

evening light on Astoria curbside garden

evening light on Astoria curbside garden

crossing the bridge to home at sunset

crossing the bridge to home at sunset

It had been a good thing to roust myself out of my garden and attend the vigil to be reminded that Love Wins.  The next day, I came upon this video from the Guardian UK that expresses that belief well.

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