Sunday, 20 March 2016
After attending the Quilt Show, I spent the day sorting through my photos from 2012-13 for the first memorial post for Mary Cat. It took a very long time as I deleted many the photo from my computer. I certainly do not need every before and after photo of jobs we no longer do.
evening: my Todd birthday bouquet still looked fabulous.
Monday, 21 March 2016
I spent the day doing the same project of deleting photos and making the Mary memorial with photos from 2014-16. It was cathartic, with the gratifying side effect of deleting about 4000 photos in all.
Allan helped out by unpacking my birthday plants for me….
Lovely Asphodeline.
and running errands…
Smokey sat right next to me watching me make the blog post.
He sort of fell asleep.
Tuesday, 22 March 2016
Today was my appointment with a knee doctor in Astoria.
beautiful clouds on our way across the Astoria Megler bridge
Allan’s photo; he said I looked “small entering the big building.”
The kindly doctor said my right knee has severe degenerative arthritis and is collapsing, that it is genetic and not unusual to have one knee much worse than the other (the left one is pretty fine still). There is no temporary fix so I need a complete knee replacement. I was not surprised. He said that he has replaced many the knee for women in their 50s. I told him that friends advise me to go to Rebound in Portland (because the basket ball team gets treated there) and that I DO NOT WANT to because going to the city 2.5 hours a way would just add to my stress and anxiety. (And I don’t care about basketball although I am sure the players get great medical care.) He said he is an excellent surgeon with much experience and the very best of knees on offer, so I will be glad to be able to have it done in Astoria. I am hoping to wait till November, though, somehow hobbling through another gardening year, as I cannot afford to lose three months of income. Yes, he says the recovery time will be THREE MONTHS of not gardening. (My mind reels.) THREE. Maybe because he will also be straightening my leg. When he said something about “soft tissue”, I tuned out. I also will probably not look at the knee replacement youtube video he told me about.
Late November through late February would just be doable for NOT GARDENING. I like to think that the doc was impressed with my pain tolerance. At least he did not pressure me, but he did advise me to give them two months notice for when I decide, and to call him if I can’t take the pain anymore. He seemed amused when I told him I have such a bad case of ostrich syndrome that I have not pursued the results of last week’s MRI, since “each day of ignorant bliss is precious.” (Surely I’d have gotten a phone call if at death’s door?)
I am reassured because I know Mr. Tootlepedal got through a knee replacement and says he has a fine new knee and is bicycling many many miles (although all I want to do is walk a couple of miles again). My first memories of my grandma include her being in knee pain daily (affected by cold weather, which mine is not) with her knees wrapped in ace bandages daily. She would have been just about my present age. Would that this technology of knee replacement had been available to her in the 1960s.
I would have liked for Allan and I to stay in Astoria for a nice lunch with a view on the riverfront. Ideally followed by a long and vigorous walk on the River Walk (next year?). With the weather too fine and the following three days having rain and wind predicted, I felt the pressure of work so back to the peninsula we went.
view from the bridge going back
Penttila’s Chapel
I had recently added Penttila’s Chapel (a mortuary, not a church) garden to the spring clean up list. I’d been thinking of passing the job on to Sea Star Gardening (Dave and Melissa) until I realized the job still has sentiment for me. Allan and I helped install the garden with Dan’s partner, Wayne (his choice of plants, mostly), while my mother’s body was in the mortuary. Although that sounds macabre, if you knew my mother, you’d know she’d have gotten a kick out that. However, when mortician Dan drove up, I did give him Dave and Mel’s card for his own personal garden clean up.
before
I think it very strange to have McDonald’s across the street from a mortuary/crematorium. (When I moved here, there was no national chain restaurant on the peninsula, and McD’s is still the only one.)
after
Allan’s befores and afters:
I would love to clip back that lithodora after it flowers. I loathe that stuff! However, cutting it back after it blooms would expose some plastic liner that Wayne installed and I forgot to ask Dan if I could remove the upper part of the liner.
after
I added some Flanders Field poppy seeds because they seem appropriate for remembrance; I hope they take.
I cannot erase this off the work board yet as we still need to weed on the right of the front garden.
lots of annoying little weeds, mostly sorrel, to haul off.
MaryBeth had stopped by while we were weeding and given me some garden decorations. When told of the knee results, she commented that she had seen my right leg go out more and more sideways (the result of “collapsing”) in “the past two years”. That’s what I had told the doc, and he had expressed surprise it could happen in just two years….apparently so. Before that, I think limping around was the only evidence. (“Are you limping?” I was often asked, as was my former partner Robert who had had polio as a child.)
Allan found a beetle hanging out on the fence post, “with a spider and some tater bugs” and brought me this photo. He said it was lady bug size (and then added, “No, a foot long.” I could not ID it, but, with help from a Facebook friend, I now know it is Calligrapha multipunctata – Common Willow Calligrapha (wonderful name).
Calligrapha multipunctata – Common Willow Calligrapha
Wednesday, 23 March, 2016
I woke early, all anxious about perhaps having to cross the bridge during winter storms for 2X a week physical therapy after knee surgery in late November. I called the doc’s office and was reassured I will be able to do the physical therapy at the PT place in Ilwaco. So happy!
When I emerged into the living room, I found Smokey and Frosty cuddled up, and that made me even happier.
I woke them up.
A kind card came with a thoughtful and reassuring message from the vet who treated their mother, Mary, last week.
Writing about the quilt show absorbed the stormy day, because I wanted to type out each of my favourite quilters’ description of their quilts.
another day from the birthday bouquet
And now…to catch up on the Tootlepedal blog. Here is an appropriate photo from the recent quilt show:
For those who are interested, I’ve published another set of old scrapbook pictures over on Grandma’s Scrapbooks.
Ginger’s Garden Diaries
from my mother’s garden diaries of two decades ago
1997 (age 72):
March 20: Took all the branches that were on the wood box off but couldn’t lift it. I pulled it partway off. There is a lot of small (kindling) branches on top of some old wood. I’ll keep burning wood in shed as its easier to get to and it burns good.
March 21: Worked 2 1/2 hours weeding strawberry rows. That plant that spews its hard seeds is in bloom so I’d better get them pulled before they go to seed. [She must mean shotweed.]
March 22: 5 hours. Finished weeding regular strawberry bed. I now need to cut off the runners and move the daughter plants back into the rows—then plant the new Raintree plants (100). The berries over by the asparagus bed aren’t as weedy as the main bed.
March 23: I’m surprised that I’m not stiff and sore from over 5 hours sitting on my stool while weeding berries.
1998 (age 73):
March 20: Beautiful day! Well I started planting tomatoes with card table set up and planted about 8 hours mostly tomatoes. I have 8 1/2 flats full. I used the 9 part square pots mostly new pots. I’m hoping that planting in the 9 section pot will enable me to get the seedlings out without root damage when I repot them. Tomorrow I have to figure out where to put all these trays.
March 21: It was raining all day so I continued planting veggie seeds, then I saw the “SEED” sign on a metal box in the closet and found more veggie seeds. Most are old old seeds. I’ll plant some but I think I’ll just throw them out in the fall as a cover crop.
March 23: It rained hard until late afternoon. I moved some of the begonia trays so I could put some tomato trays under lights. I also have them in bathroom fluorescent and on kitchen card table (with two heat pads under them). I haven’t planted any flower seeds yet because I don’t know where to put them.
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